Chapter 7 - Step 6: Learn How To Use The Phone With Success

93% of all communication is done with your
voice tone and body language. If you ring up
a woman asking for a date and you sound like
mickey mouse and are all nervous, you've
blown it straight away, no questions asked.
Again, the idea of using the phone is to get
the date, not to have a general chit chat.
Most guys have this habit of speaking for
ages on the phone and not getting to the
point.
Before you ring, think about what you are
going to say, how you are going to say it and
what you are going to say if she throws a
curve ball at you.
Go into the phone call with a plan, think
about what you are going to say and you will
be fine.
Too many people fear confrontation, just ask
for the date and if she says no, she says no,
just move on.
If you don't get a returned call you should
probably move on, happy that you didn't waste
another moment with a rude jerk.
If, on the other hand you're the adventurous
type, you can try this. Call the person up,
but don't leave messages on their answering
machine or voice mail. Wait for the person to
answer.
Just so you know, phones these days usually
tell people who has called, hungup, when and
how many times, so please dont ring 50 times
a day, because more then likely they will
know you were doing it and it looks a bit
stalkerish.
If after you called a few times over a few
days and no one picks up, leave a short,
funny message about not being able to get a
hold of her and she can ring you back.