Chapter 5 - Step 4: Learn To Write Effective Email Followups

Ok, so you're online, you're searching for
profiles of other women and you find a few
you want to email, what next?
The first email is crucial. You have to
remember, women are getting sometimes
hundreds of emails a day, so you have to
stand out straight away!
Just like in marketing, your headline should
be
eye grabbing!
The best way to do this is to mention
something about her profile in your headline.
I've made the mistake of writing things like
"hey there" in the subject heading and it's
really not a good idea.
If in the photo she puts on her profile,
she's wearing something unique comment on it.
Example Subject Headings
Where did you get that necklace from?
I don't think you're going to like me....
That top you are wearing is....
You're lucky I emailed you!
etc....
Things like that get a womans attention when
she's reading her email.
Thats the first mistake most people make, the
second one is they write too much in their
first email! They write a whole life story.
Just keep it short and sweet.
Here is an example first email I use.
Heya,
If you want to have an enthralling chat/get
to know me better my msn address is
myemailaddress@here.com so that's the place
to do it, or even better, over a crownie or 3
:) I live in Robertson, near sunnybank
plaza/garden city.
I'm off to try and find a place that does a
decent oysters kilpatrick, so have a good
night.
Cheers
your name, your profile id name
P.S. make a funny comment here about her
profile/suggest if she doesn't have msn to
either download it or buy you a beer and meet
up instead.
Notice I don't try and get an email
relationship happening, you need to hook your
date quickly.
You need to get from one step to the other
quickly.
If she emails you back and says she doesn't
have msn or any instant chat device, ask her
for her phone number.
It's that simple. Don't become email buddies!